Hello, my name is Chandra Kay “Sabine” Burns. (sigh, breathe, shake head) I don’t know where to begin. I met Mark when I was looking for an inexpensive room to rent in San Francisco in 1991. He was interviewing for a $176.00/month room at 708 Haight St., a place that Mark was the “Senior” room mate, and he lived in the front bedroom (the best room in the house. ALWAYS the best for Mark!). I wanted the smallest room in the house, on the shaft and across from the toilet room so badly that I called him at least 7 times until he said YES! The day that I moved into 708 Haight St. (it was on the corner of Pierce St. and it eventually came to it’s demise around 1993 to a horrible fire) was the day that began a life long friendship for Mark and me. Mark A. Dienstag was my soul mate. We were soul mates immediately. I have over 101 stories of the life we shared at 708 Haight alone, but our friendship was boundless; and I am so heartbroken. I am not alone, and my heart goes out to his family and all of his friends.
I am really still not right in my head. but hopefully soon I can organize this posting. I have a lot of Mark’s words, and I just need to sift through them. We told one another our darkest. Once I told Mark that I was going to save all our correspondence and publish it; and his reply to that was, “No, you should be deleting them all immediately upon reading, and in some cases before.” Well, old man, I didn’t listen to you.
(sticking my tongue out at you!)
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It’s Alright Ma: I’m Only Sighing… |
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Mark Dienstag (mark.dienstag@gmail.com) |
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Wed 10/11/06 2:23 PM |
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Chandra Burns (chalaska23@hotmail.com) |
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“Hey Hey Chocho-san,
Hope all is well yr end. Thought I’d take an idle moment here, rant in yr direction, maybe even attach another Wolfmother song for the sheer hell of it.
I guess I told you abt the gig at the Warfield? Anyway I threw up right beforehand & was like trembling nervous (here’s a tip: don’t ever *ever* peek thru the curtain before a show when there’s like say more than 4000 people waiting expectantly) but flicked 3/4s of a lit cig away when summoned & bounded right onstage like I’d been doing this my entire life & introduced the (mad) band (on accounta I was only seconds before missing) and count3ed off the 1st song (“Ragged But Right”- maybe I’ll attch that) & whoop & a hey nonny-nonny and we were off & from there mostly I remember 1. blinding lights 2. people laughing & clapping 3. the eery ghost-white faces of the backup girls 4. some marines (it was fleet wk) forcing some cute girls to 2 step (they must of been fr the south- nobody else 2 steps like that and 5. how quick the whole thing was over. it was fun & now I’m an official (PAID) member of the Kentucky Ramblers & Hippie Dad. I’ll just play my cards close to my chest & see which band pans out faster, ditch the other. God I’m a dick. Oh but I got to meet Elvis Costello the next day at the bgrass festival in the park & Emmylou Harris & can report they’re both nice, normal people (EC was really funny actually-one of my big heroes but I was too humble to ask for an autograph unlike other pushy girly things who I was jealous of for the rest of the day).”
I have so much more. So much much more I want to share with you all.

Hey Sabine, thank you so much for posting this photo of Markie. This is how I remember him last, and this is in front of his old garden level apartment on St.Johns Place in Park Slope, Brklyn. I just drove by there the other day…
Thanks again, this photo means a lot…